JOY – it’s one of the most appealing characteristics a person can exhibit and it should be easily recognizable in all Christians – especially pastors’ wives!

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The Source of Our Joy

Joy is a supernatural gift from God (Romans 15:13) that is not dependent on our circumstances.  It is a fruit of the Spirit, and just like any fruit, it must be cultivated.


The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy everything that God wants to give us and joy is no different! Here is an incomplete list, in no particular order, of areas in which the enemy will work:

  • criticism and complaints of church members
  • too much to do
  • lack of family time
  • apathetic church members
  • physical fatigue
  • spiritual wilderness
  • lack of growth in the people we lead
  • no support for the vision of the church
  • when we lose sight of God’s vision
  • social media


  • the Word (of course!) – Psalm 19:8 says His precepts “rejoice the heart”
  • an awareness of the grace of God
  • remembering who God is and who you are
  • change of mindset – keeping an eternal perspective (Hebrews 12:2)
  • guard your thoughts (Philippians 4:8)
  • step away – take a break!
  • find a ministry outside of your ministry
  • exercise (#preachingtomyself)
  • CHOOSE joy (James 1:2)

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